My dear friend Bella has a private blog( I think), she is spectacular and amazing and perfectly wonderful. Are lives mirror each other, we have known each other for 5 years, and though we have never met face to face I have to say she is the most amazing women I know, her strength, courage, love, generosity of time, love of her babies ( Roxy, poppy and swiz, shout out to the furry kids), determination, beauty, inner and out, AMAZES me....
We have both suffered great loss due to the suicide of our partners
suffered with an Eating disorder for many many...to many years
love great jokes, good music, flamboyant gay men and a good stiff vodka
We both feel each others deep pain, and greatest joys.
We hurt hard, and love even greater.
She is amazing
I would encourage everyone to email her for an invite, her blog is called truth and bone and can be found on my blog role....this is what she came up with with inspiration for dear Ben (im stealing this because its wonderful and helpful and I feel you all should do this as just doing it this morning has helped me....
State for your day
what you learned today
what you are grateful for today
and what you are good at that you did during the day
the title of this post is "Lessons from Ben" and although is short, I think its brilliant, and wanted to share with you all, and if her blogs not private ( I really cant remember) CHECK HER OUT!!!
Share with us yours...here are mine from yesterday
highlight: talking to bella cause I missed her very much
lowlight: learning that there might not be much else they can do med wise to help stablize my mood
what I learned: that if I just start my day it might not be as bad as I anticipate
what I am grateful for: that my mom is awesome and helps even with small things that seem to much for me right now
what I am good at: being a good mom, as hard as it is to admit my kids have been through hell this year and they may hurt hard but they love even harder and that says something for me.
Thank you my dear girl, I hope you dont mind me sharing this I just thought it was so wonderful it needed to be reposted.